How To Become A More Positive Person | 14 Hacks

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Introduction

In this post, we are going to look at how to become a more positive person. The way in which we think has a major impact on every single aspect of our life. This includes your career, relationships, your wealth, your family, plus much more.

Cognitive neuroscientists have conducted studies that show 95% of our thoughts are run by the subconscious mind. It’s job is to ensure that you respond in the way in which it was programmed. The problem lies in the fact that your thoughts literally run your life. So if you are wired to think negative, you are not living a life to your full potential.

The good news is, you can reprogram your mind and choose to go down the positive route. Below you will learn why we always think so negative. You will also learn how to become a more positive person with 14 different hacks and tips.

Why Do We Always Think So Negative?

If you have an argument with a work colleague, make a mistake or receive an insult, have you noticed how you will just dwell on it for hours or even days after it has happened. In a single day you could receive ten compliments and one insult, but your mind will fixate on that single insult.

Criticism and negative events will have a far greater impact on our brains. Psychologists will refer to this as negative bias. The negativity bias (as it;s also called) can have a very powerful effect on many things in your life, including your behavior, relationships, and even the decisions you make. It refers to our tendency for negative stimuli to register more easily into our brains and then to dwell on it for a long time after the event.

Here is what we tend to do as humans:

  • React stronger to negative stimuli
  • Respond a lot stronger to negative events than to positive ones
  • Remember any insults better than praise
  • Remember traumatic experiences over positive experiences

Is It Possible To Be Positive All Of The Time?

You don’t have to be positive every second of every day. It’s more than okay to go through normal human emotions and sometimes feel sad, angry, and impatient. The difference is in the way that you handle it.

For your normal everyday person, even a small disagreement at work can eat away at there thoughts for the rest of the day, and even into the next few days. The key to changing the way you think is, yes feel sad or angry, they are normal emotions, but do not stay in that zone.

The tips and hacks found below will help you to achieve this. They will help to put you into a better state of mind and feel more positive for a bigger percentage of the day.

14 Ways To Become More Positive

#1 Practice Gratitude

Practicing gratitude is one one the best methods to help you become a more positive person. Listing all of things in life you are grateful for will help shift the focus away from the negativity. There are so many things you can be grateful for, even the tiny things you take for granted.

Be grateful for…

  • Being employed
  • The sun that comes up each morning
  • To sleep in a bed each night
  • Sense of sight
  • Family
  • Nature

The list goes on and on. The best thing to do is keep a daily journal. You can even do this digitally. Just set up a document in Google Docs and jot everything in there. It’s a great tool to have, especially times when you are feeling angry or having an off day, just read through your list.

#2 Two Steps Forward

It can be very hard to to shift your way of thinking from negative to positive, so be patient. The key is being aware of these negative patterns. If you catch yourself being negative about people or different situations, take a moment to observe these thoughts and then counter them with two positive observations or gratitude.

# 3 Positive Posture

Poor posture can not only cause back and neck pain, arthritic joints, and muscle fatigue, but it can also have a negative impact on your mind. Slumping can affect our moods, which in turn affects our productivity.

If you are feeling in a sad, negative mood, try moving your body first. You can change your body chemistry just by changing your position. Stand or sit up straight with your chin held high and shoulders back. Carrying yourself in such a way will allow you to feel more positive and powerful.

#4 Smile

Even if you have nothing to smile about, just by smiling you will trick your mind into being more positive and instantly change the way you feel. You can do this at home, in your car, or even while driving. Give it a try, see how you feel.

#5 Do Something Kind

One of the best ways to fill yourself with positivity is to actually go out of your way and help someone else. Throughout a typical day, you will get multiple opportunities to do this. So go out of your way and make it a goal to do at least one nice thing for somebody every single day.

# 6 Repeat A Personal Mantra

If you’ve never came across anything like this before, this one may feel very strange at first. Do not let this put you off, as this is one of the best ways of reprogramming your mind towards positive thinking.

A few examples of this are…

  • “It is what it is”
  • “When one door closes another one opens”
  • “Everything happens for a reason”

The best way to go about this is to talk to yourself like you would talk to a friend. The reason for this is because we are always way harder on ourselves than we are to other people.

#7 Go Outdoors

It has been proven that spending time in nature can drastically boost positive thinking. With full time work and family commitments, I know it’s not always possible to get time to do this, but there are some cool tricks and hacks you can use.

  1. More Plants: Try adding more plants around your workplace (if possible) and around your home.
  2. Nature Scenes: A study was conducted in which a stress-inducing film was shown to a group of people, who were later exposed to shots of either urban life or nature. The group who were exposed to the shots of nature recovered a lot more quickly from the stress. When feeling stressed, try watching nature scenes on YouTube.

#8 Meditation

Meditation is by far one of the best methods, and something everybody should be doing on a daily basis.

The benefits of meditation include…

  • Reduces Stress
  • Controls Anxiety
  • Promotes Emotional Health
  • Enhances Self-Awareness
  • Lengthens Attention Span
  • Can Generate Kindness
  • Improves Sleep
  • Helps Control Pain
  • Can Decrease Blood Pressure

Anybody can do this regardless of how busy you are. At a bare minimum do 10- 15 minutes on a morning and the the same on an evening before bed.

#9 Regular Exercise

Research has proven that there is a connection between exercise and human emotions. Regular exercise and being active will help you feel a lot healthier and happier. I’m not saying you need to be in the gym 6 times a week, even a minute walk can make a world of difference. You could even combine this with tip number 7 which was going outdoors into nature. You are then getting two benefits into one.

# 10 Believe That Positive Attitude is a Choice

This is one that everybody struggles with. When negativity enters your life and things start going wrong, you will blame everyone and everything and the whole world is against you. You are in control of your own thoughts and that includes choosing to think positive.

Choosing positivity is one of the greatest choices you could ever make, and one that will change your life. Things will happen in life and it’s up to you to choose how you want to feel about it. You are in control of a positive attitude and nothing in the world can ever take that away from you.

#11 Remove Negativity From Your Life

To live joyful happy life full of positivity, you cannot surround yourself with negative people. Let’s be clear on one thing, nobody is perfect, everyone has their flaws, but some people generate so much negativity and it is just toxic in your life.

This process is far from easy, especially when you have family members who bring nothing but a negative experience into your life. You cannot avoid family so you have to work around this and use techniques like in this guide to keep you on the right tracks.

#12 Look For The Positive In Everything

No matter how bad a situation or a person is, you should always see something good in there, even if it’s not obvious. By looking at the negative, you are putting yourself into a negative mindset.

Even if the situation is bad, see at as a life experience and something you can learn and grow stronger from. All of these situations will develop you into a stronger person with a better mindset.

#13 Set Goals

Setting goals is something which everybody should be doing but not many people actually do. The problem is, life becomes very stagnant when your waking up every morning to the same routine. This same routine goes on year after year.

Setting goals will give you something to work towards, make you feel more positive, and if you follow the goals they will drastically improve your life. This can be an entire subject on it’s own so i will go more in-depth with this in another post.

#14 Make Your Home A Positive Place to Be

Your home should be full of inspiration to help get you into that positive mindset. You can get some great quote canvas and framed prints which you can put up around the house. Put these in every room, including the bathroom. This will give you some great inspiration where ever you are in the house.

Conclusion

The key to become a more positive person is consistency! What you have to remember is you are not going to transform over night. Just follow all of the steps and have patience. If you keep taking action, then eventually over time, you will rewire your brain and become a more positive person.

If you have tried any of the methods, or even ones which wasn’t covered in this post, let me know your results in the comments below.

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