In this post we are going to look at why is it important to not give up. Giving up when things get hard is a common trait amongst most humans. When things aren’t going our way or certain goals are taking too long to achieve, the easy option is to just give up. It’s inevitable that we are all going to face failure multiple times on our life.
The key is to know how to deal with these failures but the problem is, most people people are clueless about what to do. It’s an area of your life that you really should be working on. If you can master how to deal with failure and setbacks, then the results can be truly life changing.
Obstacles won’t just disappear, but with time and commitment you will progress and prepare to blast through any setbacks life throws your way. So lets take a look in more detail at why people give up and why is it important to not give up.
Why Do People Give Up?
#1 We expect fast results
It’s a fast-paced world and most people want and expect instant results. When they do not hit their goal in the expected time-frame, they get disheartened and end up quitting. Don’t just hit one obstacle and then give up, keep trying over and over again.
I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life and that is why I succeed. – Michael Jordan
#2 Not willing to put in the time
This relates to and follows on from the first point above. Most people are just not willing to put in the time. Success doesn’t come over night, it takes time and you have to be patient. It’s about making those sacrifices at the start of your goal where you put in the time on whatever it is your trying to achieve instead of doing leisure activities.
#3 Not willing to put in the hard work
Along with time, putting in the hard work is another factor in why people give up. When things start getting tough it can be demotivating and it becomes easy to give up. Just always remember that any hard work put in now will be rewarded in the future, so just keep at it.
Anything worth doing takes hard work.
#4 Insufficient reward
One of the main factors that causes people to give up is when they put in a ton of hard work and time and see little reward. There is nothing more demotivating than not seeing the results you would of expected and feel like you are working for nothing. Setting up a blog is a great example of this.
You could write a blog post every single day for a year and not earn a penny. There are people out there making 6-figures a year from a blog. The reason why 99% of people fail to do this is because they quit way too early when they are seeing insufficient rewards. The key is to setup small, achievable goals and not just one long term goal.
#5 Old Habits
Getting started with something new is the easy part. People start something new all of the time such as a diet or lifestyle changes etc. The hardest part is actually making these new habits and lifestyle changes stick. The key is to focus on progress and small goals rather than perfection.
This is a huge subject which cannot be covered here but if you want to lean more about on this subject, I wrote an article called How to Build Good Habits and Break Bad Ones.
Giving up on your goal because of one setback is like slashing your other three tires because you got one flat one.
Why Is It Important Not To Give Up
#1 Pursue Your dreams with resilience
All of us have dreams and fantasies of a dream lifestyle we would like to have. If you give up on things easily which most people do, then it will only ever be a dream. All of the successful people in the world today are where they are because they didn’t let any obstacles or setbacks make them quit. Remember, failures are the best education you can get.
#2 Quitting can become a habit
As previously mentioned, a big part of giving up is to do with habits. Starting something and then quitting can lead to a pattern of giving up and turning it into a habit. Always remember that anything worthwhile requires hard work and persistence.
#3 Self-belief is everything
Believing in yourself is important because it is the definition of never giving up! Failure is inevitable and something that will happen to everyone in life. One of the key elements to success is the willingness to accept failure and still keep moving forward. The way you achieve this is with self-belief.
Don’t be one of those people that believe’s they have bad luck, luck has nothing to do with it and doesn’t exist. With self belief you can achieve anything you put your mind to.
#4 You Can Do It
Some people will view this as a morbid way of thinking, but myself personally I see it as the biggest motivator. Death is pretty much the only certainty in life. As long as you are alive and breathing, anything is possible and you can do anything you put your mind to. Every second you waste overthinking and have the fear of failure is another second of your life wasted away and another second closer to death.
I’ve noticed that the older I get, the more I seem to think in this manner which makes you realise that your time is very limited and want to make each second count. So the next time you try something and it doesn’t go your way, don’t waste time hesitating, just pick yourself up and keep going.
#5 You Believe In Your Dreams
When your looking at why is it important to not give up, following your dreams is something you must do and don’t let anybody tell you different. If you think of how far we have come as humans and what we have achieved in terms of technology. This shows that there were many dreamers before you. Had they of just given up and not followed their dreams, we would be living in a very different world.
A good example of this is the Wright brothers who invented flight. Not only were they laughed at but they were told what they were trying to achieve was impossible. The way you have to see it is would you give up on your family or your children? The answer is obviously no, so why would you give up on yourself and your own dreams!
If you can imagine it, you can achieve it. If you can dream it, you can become it.
#6 Everything you need is already inside of you
What you must understand is the people who are successful are not too different from yourself. They are not necessarily the smartest people in the world and a lot of them will openly admit that. The amount of people I’ve come across with a high level of intellect but they are stuck in a low income regular job.
So what is the defining factor that makes certain people become successful? The difference between a successful person and a regular person in the mindset. With the correct mindset you will achieve all of your goals and dreams with a never give up attitude! You do not need to be the smartest or possess the most skills, everything you need is already inside of you.
#7 You don’t want any regrets
You don’t to be in a position later in your life where you are full of regrets and wish you had taken more action. Here’s a great motivational trick used by Tony Robbins called a “Rocking Chair Test”.
Take a moment and imagine yourself at 85 years old. You’re in your rocking chair, reflecting on how you’ve lived. Imagine your life if you did whatever it is that makes you anxious or fearful; maybe it’s changing careers, learning to fly a helicopter or taking a trip somewhere new. How do you feel? What’s your life been like as a result of the decision? – Tony Robbins
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#8 Prove it to yourself that you can do it
Here’s why it’s important to prove it to yourself when you feel like giving up.
- Do whatever it is you want to do as you are in control of your own life.
- To achieve your dream life and hit all of your goals, you will have to do it yourself. Nobody is going to do this for you and it won’t come without hard work.
- Regardless of what anybody else says, your opinion of yourself is the only one that counts.
- True failure isn’t when a few things don’t go your way, it’s when you totally give up. Develop a never give up mindset where you can prove it to yourself and others what you are capable of achieving.
#9 The feeling of success feels great
One of the best feelings in the world is hitting an obstacle and overcoming it, even if it takes many attempts. The fact that you had to work for it with determination instead of it being handed to you on a plate makes the success taste even sweeter.
Earlier we talked about the importance of habits. When you’ve hit success once, momentum will be on your side and you can keep doing this over and over again. Eventually winning will become a habit which will give you unlimited potential to achieve any goal or dream.
#10 Build mental toughness
When you keep blasting through obstacles and failure it will eventually form a mental toughness that will make you unstoppable. This newly formed mental toughness from never giving up will allow you to deal with any challenge that life throws at you.
#11 Allows you to inspire others
Everything you achieve from never giving up will not only change your life but it will allow you to inspire others. A lot of people will not have enough self-belief to think that they could possibly inspire others. If you think of some of the biggest role models in the world, none of them are perfect.
You’ll discover that all of them have faced some kind of demons in their life or even battles with depression, anxiety, and self confidence issues. We are all human and all face the same kind of issues and mental battles in life. You are more than capable of inspiring other people if you follow your dreams with a never give up attitude.
#12 There’s always somebody working harder than you
If you have a list of short and long term goals, always remember that there’s other people out there with similar goals who are working harder than you are. Let this be the drive and motivation you need to push past any barriers. Sacrifice and put in the hard work now and you will be rewarded for this in the future.
The most worthwhile things in life do not come easy. If it were easy then everybody would be a millionaire or living a luxury, dream lifestyle.
# 13 Proving other people wrong
In life there is always going to be the haters that want to see you fail. There’s no better feeling than proving those people wrong who didn’t think you could do it. Next time things get tough, use this as your motivation and do not give them the satisfaction of being right by quitting. This is what they want to see happen.
#14 Rome wasn’t built in a day
The main problem is that people want instant results. When they don’t see instant results they give up too easily. Not many people want to or have the motivation to put in the required hard work upfront. As I’ve mentioned multiple times, if it were easy then everybody would have a 6-figure a year online business and living the perfect lifestyle.
This kind of lifestyle is being lived by the people who make sacrifices, put in the initial hard work, and never give up no matter what obstacles are put in their way. Forget the idea of instant success, nobody can build an empire in a day. Just be patient and keep putting in the work.
#15 Your past does not determine your future
However many failures you have experienced in the past is completely irrelevant. These failures are the biggest education you can get and they do not mean you can’t achieve success in the future. Any person at any stage in life can turn their life around with the correct mindset and a plan of action.
#16 You’re likely closer to your goal than you think you are
It can be very frustrating when you are working hard and putting a ton of time into something and seeing very little results. This is one of the main things that makes people want to give up. As crazy as this sounds, this is actually a good soon and an indication that you are closer to your goal than you think.
A good example of this is blogging which I talk about a lot on this site. You can spend hours putting up blog posts every day for 8 months and hardly see any visitors to your site. This is the point where 99% of people give up. The fact is, it takes a long time for your posts to reach there highest ranking position in Google.
What you’ll find is if you keep pushing passed this point, you’ll eventually see that hockey stick growth where things just take off. This is why it is so important to never give up!
Hope you enjoyed this post on why is it important to not give up. The points raised in this post should now give you the motivation to blast through any kind of failures which will prevent you from giving up on your goals ever again.